I should start by saying that I am currently 33,000 feet in the air. It’s -51 degrees up here, and we are going 585 mph. Y’all… this is 100% opposite of a good time for me. I am scared to death. Flying isn’t my thing. To top it off, I am traveling alone. My hands are so clammy. I feel nauseous. This just isn’t my favorite thing to do. Actually, I despise it. Thoughts go through my head like what is my mama’s-boy going to do without his mother if something happens. Yes, I’m that dramatic. Worst case scenario here… all the time.
The new year has brought so many new opportunities for me and my business (hence the plane ride). On the surface, it all looks so good… glamorous even. I am in a Mastermind led by a photographer who is known world-wide. I am taking my business in a new direction… a better direction. I was just invited to speak on the Online Success Collaborative Pod. (It’s a good one, check it out here!) It’s exciting. It looks so fun. But what you don’t see are my nerves. My anxiety. My fears. My failures. Right now I’m literally on the plane ride to HUGE goal of mine… and at this moment in time it isn’t pretty. I’m scared. I’m on bumpy plane ride. I miss my son already. There’s a lot of negative. So, why? Why am I doing it? Just like a good run, the hardest part is starting, and it always feels so good when you’re done.
I know I’m not alone in this. I know you have goals and dreams, but I think we can both agree that path isn’t easy. No matter what you may be doing.
Ironic. We just hit some serious, serious turbulence on this flight.
No matter what the goal, big or small, I always feel the same way starting out. Anxious. Scared, even. I felt it when I left my teaching job to pursue photography full time. I felt it when I went into the hospital to have our son. I felt it again when we brought him home. Anxious was very real when I signed a lease for my first studio. And now here I am… on a plane. Oh, the places photography has taken me.
But don’t be fooled. I’m slightly miserable at the moment. If I could turn this plane around, I might. I already miss my son. I wonder if he is having a good day. If he’s ok. Oh, a mommy’s poor worried heart. And here’s the thing, I knew I was going to feel this way. I always know I am going to feel this way. So, I prepare myself. This is how I approve any and all goals (big or small.)
4 steps to goal setting (that no one is talking about.)
Start today and apply these four steps to your goals. Take yourself seriously, write it down, never let yourself down, and take the utmost care of yourself. As Lara Casey, the CEO of Cultivate What Matters, says, “there’s nothing magical about January 1st.” Start today, my friend. I couldn’t be more glad I started… if you’re reading this live, be sure to follow along on my IG stories. This scary plane ride (and the 1000 other scary things I’ve done to get this far) is going pay off huge. I know they will for you as well!
Cheering you on always, Kayla